Keeping Your Kids Safe on the Internet

by Angela Haurum, YSB Prevention Specialist

The Internet can be a wonderful resource.  It can be used for research, to communicate, and to play interactive games. Anyone who is old enough to punch a few letters on a keyboard has access to the world. That access can pose great danger to kids, however.  That is why it is so important to be aware of what your children are exposed to online and what they share about themselves. Just like any other safety issue, it is very important to talk to your kids about your concerns and keep a close eye on their activities. Here are some steps you can take to help you do just that.

1. Tell your child to never reveal personal information, such as name, age, address, phone number, school name, parent’s name, or parent’s work online.

2. Do not allow your child to send personal photographs to anyone on the Internet.

3. If your child has a new “friend,” insist on being “introduced” online to that friend.

4. Keep the computer in a common area, where you can watch and monitor your child.

5. Share an email account with your child so that you can monitor messages.

6. Bookmark your child’s favorite websites to ensure she doesn’t type errors and inadvertently end up on inappropriate sites.

7. Forbid your child from entering private chat rooms. Block them with special filtering software.

8. Monitor all credit cards and phone bills for unfamiliar account charges.

9. Tell your child to report to you any message that sounds threatening or that makes him feel uncomfortable.

10. Forward copies of obscene or threatening messages to your Internet service provider.

Warning Signs that Your Child May Be a Victim of an Online Predator

• Spending long hours online, especially at night

• Phone calls from people you don’t know

• Unexpected gifts arriving in the mail

• Suddenly shuts computer off when you enter the room

• Withdrawal from family life

• Reluctance to discuss online activities

• Sudden change in attitude and opinions

Contact your local law enforcement agency if your child receives child pornography or if you believe your child is a victim of a computer sex offender.